Good evening one and all,
I hope your day filled your heart with gratitudes. The weather was overcast, but that's nothing compared to what many on the East Coast are enduring. Those touched by Hurricane Sandy have my prayers and of many who visit this inn.
It's great seeing many posting comments. Thank you!
I will take chances with tomorrow's weather and head over to San Francisco. I'll leave early. My guess is that hundreds of thousands will join me in cheering the Giants baseball players as they enjoy a victory parade in the City by the Bay.
I met with friends this evening and was thrown for a loop. I'm still processing what happened. Someone made a request that blew my mind.
She wasn't inappropriate, but her request was confusing and strange. That's where my Balcony People come in. I'll check in with them and get their perspective. I'm very glad that I have other who help me understand life.
I had a busy day, seeing several clients. It's important I exercise: it helps me cope with the demands my work places on me, emotionally. Today's sessions were positive and productive. But, my introspective nature needs recharging after I put out a lot of personal energy, actively listening and dialoging with those I see.
My Gratitudes for Today:
1. I had an awkward conversation with the person who made a request.
I stepped back and ended our talk when it became uncomfortable. Part of my problem is that this person struggles with anger. I find it best to stay away from others who are emotionally toxic.
I'm thankful that I did what was necessary for me to have emotional safety. I'm also grateful for character discernment.
2. One of today's clients was new, her first session with me. Our time was rich, we worked through several significant issues in our limited time. It's an honor seeing a person grow, right before my eyes.
3. I had a good conversation with a friend. I was touched by her encouraging feedback.
It's funny though, how the unpleasant conversation that I had with the angry person created an unpleasant space within me. That usually doesn't happen. I think I was more vulnerable because of the intense day at work and I'm exhausted.
I'm glad I know about being in HALT. You can read more about this subject here.
4. I rode my bike today. Putting in a lot of hours at work has reduced my chances at cycling. I'm glad I made time today. It helps me discharge stress.
How About You?
What do you do when you are in an unpleasant conversation? I have my ways of handling them, but I would appreciate any suggestions you have. I can always grow and approve.
I hope your day filled your heart with gratitudes. The weather was overcast, but that's nothing compared to what many on the East Coast are enduring. Those touched by Hurricane Sandy have my prayers and of many who visit this inn.
It's great seeing many posting comments. Thank you!
I will take chances with tomorrow's weather and head over to San Francisco. I'll leave early. My guess is that hundreds of thousands will join me in cheering the Giants baseball players as they enjoy a victory parade in the City by the Bay.
I met with friends this evening and was thrown for a loop. I'm still processing what happened. Someone made a request that blew my mind.
She wasn't inappropriate, but her request was confusing and strange. That's where my Balcony People come in. I'll check in with them and get their perspective. I'm very glad that I have other who help me understand life.
I had a busy day, seeing several clients. It's important I exercise: it helps me cope with the demands my work places on me, emotionally. Today's sessions were positive and productive. But, my introspective nature needs recharging after I put out a lot of personal energy, actively listening and dialoging with those I see.
My Gratitudes for Today:
1. I had an awkward conversation with the person who made a request.
I stepped back and ended our talk when it became uncomfortable. Part of my problem is that this person struggles with anger. I find it best to stay away from others who are emotionally toxic.
I'm thankful that I did what was necessary for me to have emotional safety. I'm also grateful for character discernment.
2. One of today's clients was new, her first session with me. Our time was rich, we worked through several significant issues in our limited time. It's an honor seeing a person grow, right before my eyes.
3. I had a good conversation with a friend. I was touched by her encouraging feedback.
It's funny though, how the unpleasant conversation that I had with the angry person created an unpleasant space within me. That usually doesn't happen. I think I was more vulnerable because of the intense day at work and I'm exhausted.
I'm glad I know about being in HALT. You can read more about this subject here.
4. I rode my bike today. Putting in a lot of hours at work has reduced my chances at cycling. I'm glad I made time today. It helps me discharge stress.
How About You?
What do you do when you are in an unpleasant conversation? I have my ways of handling them, but I would appreciate any suggestions you have. I can always grow and approve.