Holistically helping others transcend trauma, cultivate their inner voice, and celebrate a great big life. 

You can reach by phone at (510) 355-4309 or by
 e-mail at pablosrnewhoperesources@gmail.com
     Passionate about helping others in their journey towards healing. 

       This involves moving beyond our Victim Story, the difficult parts of our past. Those scarred areas that play within our mind as if on a loop cycle.

        Our victim story fills us with disturbing thoughts. Those that cause us to see life with dread, feeling there is no hope.

        This is the opposite of being embraced by grace, being comforted by the compassion of healthy others. 

        I teach others how to how to have those type of relationships. We train people how to treat us.  I show my clients how we can have the warmth, connection and peace of mind they want and deserve. 

       Recovery is putting dragons of depression and despair where they belong. In our past. It isn't denying the reality of past pain.  It is no longer letting the joy, hope and love we deserve to be dragged.  I share how we can become liberated from the weight of negative memories and emotions. 

       There are ways we can apply healthy behavior and thinking to areas that once held us back.  We can learn how to create a better today. 

       Recovery is critical for health and happiness.  This includes our thinking. (For more info on this click here.)  An old proverb says: 
“As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”   Proverbs 23:7
        Research shows attitude profoundly affects our performance and self-esteem. Most of us still see life through the flashlight of our Victim Story.  We want to view life through the searchlight of the good qualities of who we truly are.  We are loved and deserving.  Often this hard to believe because we focus on false beliefs developed since childhood. 

         One false belief is that bad things happened because we deserved mistreatment.  Or we think God is mad. At us.  Or that we are bad people.  That  we do not deserve love. 

         Not true. 

        Gratitude and living with integrity towards our values help us achieve the Great Big Life we want and deserve.  It helps us  win the Grand Prix.

        My wish is this inn provides guests with principles and encouragement that helps develop inner strength.  I want this place to offer you greater courage.  In this place, we learn how to surf today's challenges.  What you discover here provides perspective.  It reveals ways we can respond pressures we face. 
  “If we keep our face towards the sun we won’t see much of darkness.”   Helen Keller.
         Teach,train, encourage, helping others make successful priorities is what I do.  Through Skype and the phone I help many, including those around the world. 

        Clients find their voice. They learn how to assert boundaries.  How to overcome trauma and being stuck. 

        They learn how to become innocent again, celebrating the Great Big Life in store for them.  Clients learn how to overcome abuse and resentment.  They discover how to lance the boil of bitterness.  They discover how to use nonviolent communication.  Those I help learn this method to say what they mean, mean what they say but not say it meanly. 

        Those I see discover how to have that difficult conversation they are avoiding. Client learn how to distinguish Safe People from those who aren't.  Clients experience the healing power somatic therapy has for trauma.  They  discover how to grow Balcony People. These are people who make us better because of the time spent with them.  For more about them, read here.  

        Those interested learn how to have a date worth keeping, alternatives that heal depression, isolation and fear, or time management. 

        I relate with professionals. I've directed organizations in Northern California.  For years, I oversaw a Fortune 400 company involving a staff of more than 200; before that, I worked as a psychiatric rehab therapist in a sub-acute psychiatric hospital for nine years. Having these experiences, and raising three teenage sons, I can face any challenge, believe me. 

        I assist others in becoming the person they want to be. Clients learn how to being grounded in the present
        I believe each seminar I give and each session I have provides clients with tools to handle their problems. Whether the problem is within them or their relationship with others. They discover a depth of resources. This the result of more than thirty-five thousand hours of being involved in this profession. 

       Question: are you willing to make the investment necessary to enjoy a great big life?  I hope and believe so.  Let me help you.  Give me a call and we can start that journey for you.  Another possibility is  introducing yourself by sharing your gratitudes here.  I look forward to hearing from you. 

            Wishing you a great and grateful day!

                             The Innkeeper

Telephone Number: (510) 355-4309
E-mail: pablosrnewhoperesources@gmail.com
Skype: pablocfuentessr.  (include the ".") 

Quotes from the Posts

"I'm mindful that our thoughts affect the words we use, our words influence our actions, our actions shape our character and our character determines our destiny."

From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.

"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."

From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post
written. To read it, please click here.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.

"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."

From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.

"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"

From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.