Monday, July 9

A Good Day, But Still Experiencing Fireworks from the Fourth of July

"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the last of 
the human freedoms– to choose one’s attitude in any given set 
of circumstances, to choose one’s own way."         Viktor Frankl
My Gratitudes for Today
1. I rested. It was good for my health and provided the tranquility I needed.
2. I had time alone. It allowed me to sort out my thoughts and
decompress from the turmoil I experienced last week when I had four encounters with an emotional abuser.
3. I corresponded with several people today. I enjoy the connection I share with others, when I write letters. It's a lost art, but much better than texting, even better than a phone call, I believe. I like its permanence, it can be re-read.
Shooting Fireworks of Another Kind
        I rode my bike, 27 miles in 1 hour and five minutes, 26.4 mph, my best, for that distance! Each mile I rode for an average of 2.4 minutes. This included off-rode mountain biking, slipping and sliding along the shore.
       This was my first ride of any significant length, since last Wednesday, the Fourth of July. On that day I had an accident while cycling. The street greeted my knee with a bang.
        Train tracks had gripped the side of my front wheel, tipping my bike on its side. On that holiday, my body experienced a fireworks of the bodily kind----pain shot through my knee---as never known before.  The rest of my body rolled from side-to-side on the street, keeping company with my throbbing leg.  :)
4. I'm glad I got back on the saddle and discharged energy from my stress-filled body while rolling around the island town of Alameda.  (See number two re: the cause of stress.)
5. I loved rising early; I got much done, before it was 10:00 a.m.
6. I'm thankful for each of you who drop by and keep me company, at this inn.
7. I'm sleeping better. Ya ay!

6 comments:

Vanessa Higgins said...

Glad to hear of your cycling accomplishments. Well done! Choosing to rest following a tough week is a great method of self-care. Keep living well, you inspire others.

Pablo said...

Thank you, Vanessa, for your encouragement!

You almost make me blush with your compliments. :>

I'm wishing you the best, for the remainder of this week

aileen said...

...to choose one's attitude...
food for thought and action for me as I continue my efforts to exercise my faith muscles.

gratitudes for today:

being in touch enough w/myself to recognize I was not doing well today and acknowledge that, and was self loving enough not to berate myself.

getting several loads of laundry done, at last, and having a fresh bed to rest in.

getting in study hours which helped me stay focused and not slip further into this malaise of today.

Very much appreciate the quote from Mr. Frankl. For me, TIMELY!!

Trust you are recovering nicely from the holdiay bike mishap, Pablo.

My our remainder of the week be GREAT!

Carl H said...

Thanks for your gratitude's (the photo is gorgeous!) and for the Frankl quote; particularly fitting for me. Reminds me one of my most basic rights as an adult is to make my own decisions, and the dignity, and sense of equality that brings.

Grateful I could play a small role re-introducing friends, and hope it works out!

Grateful for a house filled with the joyous bustle of a returning son, his friend and new tenant, and my wife's house guest. Hospitality is good for my soul; stretches and opens my heart.

I am grateful I could unexpectedly be the only man, in a large circle of ladies, sharing a brief story of my experience, strength and hope found in service

Pablo said...

Aileen,

I'm glad you liked the quote. It's one of the trademarks of this inn. I frequently leave positive quotations underneath the photos I post.

Good for you, you were gentle towards yourself. When our vulnerable self is loved and accepted, it experiences healing and transformation.

Congrats on placing principles above your personality today.

I was especially motivated to share that quote today. Normally I select from another source. I'm glad I yielded to my intuitive self. I was drawn to this statement from Frankl, today.

Thanks for your encouragements, I'd love to have a great week!

Pablo

Pablo said...

Carl,

I absolutely agree with you. Having the freedom to make our own choices is critical not only for our dignity, but for our emotional and mental health.

It appears that you have a lot going on at your home. My hat is off to you---I think I'd have a harder time coping with all the personalities.

You must have had fun, being the only rooster in the hen house. How was it, speaking before an unfamiliar group of people? What need of yours was met, by sharing with the women?

Quotes from the Posts

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From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.

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From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post
written. To read it, please click here.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.

"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."

From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.

"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"

From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.

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