Sunday, February 3

600th Post. God Revealed At Work, Gentleness Towards Self and a Spiritual Awakening, Its Characteristics ..............................2/3/13

    Good evening,

I suppose it is even though my football team lost in the Super Bowl.  Oh darn.

    The Forty Niners did well for a group that had an rookie for a quarterback. Today, he was playing only in
his tenth professional game. My team rallied back from a huge deficit, making a game of it.  In the last two minutes they lost.

     This entry is my six hundredth post in the less than two years this inn has been open.  Wow.  Three years ago I committed to writing everyday. 

      I've grown as a writer, as a result.  Much of my efforts you've seen here, with an average 27.5 posts per month.  Thank you, for joining me as I share my musings and the gratitudes that come my way. 

      It hasn't been easy.  For decades, I've been a public  speaker.  Writing is an entirely different animal, but well suited for my personality: I'm reflective and analytical.  More importantly, I enjoy encouraging.

    I can't be happier that this 600th post milestone falls on a post about a spiritual awakening.  We are primarily spiritual, even though we may not operate that way. 

    It amazes me how we can allow temporary matters----worldly concerns----to consume and wrack our mind and spirit. For more on this subject, you can read here.  It is the third all-time most popular post. 

       It is fulfilling, meeting and hearing your comment, reading your letters.  I'm glad when this place encourages you.  I believe it's better to light candle than to curse the darkness.
"How far the candle throws his beams!
So shines a good deed [or word] in a naughty world."
Wm.Shakespeare, Merchant of Venice, Act V, Sc. I
My Gratitudes for Sunday:

1.  A new client and I met met before the game.  The session was good: the rapport was terrific.  We hit the ground running.  It's always a experience, meeting someone for the first time.  I'm grateful my work allows me to serve others, making my life count.

      Oprah Winfrey and I have a lot in common.  Maybe I should start my own television show. :-> Lately----with the last six clients-----they've cried during our time together.

2.  I made a mistake today.  There was a mixup related to an appointment I had.  I'm thankful I am able to forgive myself.  Knowing I am not what I do or don't do helps me keep perspective.  What a relief, knowing that I'm valuable and loved, warts and all.  It allows me to live at ease, knowing tranquility and equanimity.

3.  Recently, I had a spiritual experience while with a client. You can't believe how frequently that happens. This client felt God's presence, too. Wow. This time, His comforting love and encouraging Spirit enveloped us as we processed areas where the client struggles.

4.  I'm glad I can check in with you. I apologize for not responding to all comments. I value them----it's not so lonely here, when you check in, with your feedback.

     Unfortunately, I've been reduced to borrowing a laptop.  Sometimes there is only time to squeeze in a post.  I hope you'll forgive my silence in the comments section.  I appreciate the fellowship we share. 

5. With one of my clients today we covered some of the qualities of having a Spiritual Awakening.  It's  great subject that I've covered in this inn several times.  It's the ultimate goal for all of our lives.  In recovery we call it the Twelfth Step:
     "Having had a spiritual awakening, as the result of these steps [all the other efforts we've made], we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs." 
     I was happy seeing the client's responsiveness to the subject.  

A Review of Some Marks of a Spiritual Awakening: 

a. There is less interest judging ourselves or others.  We become gentler in our worldview.  We know grace and offer it to others.
b  We live more by spontaneity, rather than by fearful control of others.

      We are able to stay present, making the most of this very moment----all we will ever have is now.  We are not polluted by the painful scars of our past.

      We are right-sized----neither thinking of ourselves higher or lower in value than we are. We, and everyone, are precious.  That mentality helps reduce any urges we have about controlling others.

c.  We appreciate nature and the little gifts of life more, because we are freed from the static of worry, fear, resentment and anger.
d.  Instead of obsession and constant anxiety we find more inner peace.  We know what it is to stay in our power, recovery and integrity. We can stand for ourselves without standing against our fellows.We can know the fullness of our feelings without being overwhelmed by them.
e.  We are able to relax more and go with the flow of life.  We've learned how to Let Go and Let God.
f.   We find ourselves giving and receiving unconditional love. As we become comfortable with ourselves and learn discernment we discover intimacy, in a safe venue, with emotionally healthy, caring, supportive others.

How About You?
Have you had a spiritual awakening?  If so, what what are additional characteristics that I've overlooked?  I'd love hearing your thoughts on this subject.
Related Post: 
A Spiritual Awakening, Part I
An Un-American Concept, We Are Primarily Spiritual

4 comments:

Broken said...

Dear Pablo,
A lovely post as always.I'm grateful for your words,I really am.Especially the subject of spiritual awakening on this post was very close to my heart...I think your description of the steps towards spiritual awakening is very accurate.Going through that road and reaching that phase can be very difficult as well as tiring.Sometimes we trip and need an extra hand to help us back up again.Having tripped and tasted the dust on that road,I know how important it is to have that extra hand and I was lucky enough to have someone near me at that time.Thats why I think it's wonderful that you can help those of us that need the helping hand and I hope someday I can too :)Your posts have been very inspiring to me.

Carl H said...

Dear Innkeeper,

I too was saddened by the 49er's loss, but then you are right. The QB is young and did very well, all things considered. He threw at least two or three perfectly executed long-yardage passes that his receiver's somehow dropped; not his doing.

My High's and Low's for the week and Gratitudes are;

High: Progress with Physical Therapy Rehab; range of motion with the new right knee.

Low: The 49er's loss, and my ongoing struggle to fix my incoming Outlook email settings. Microsoft is slowly but surely pushing into the outstretched arms of Apple!!!

My Gratitudes from this past weekend were;

1. Watching two beautiful, moving films with my wife on Saturday night; My Dog Skip and Life of Pi; the later highly recommended!

2. The exciting "almost-won" second half of the Super Bowl, when the 49er's were coming back against all odds from a hugh deficit to nearly win!

3. Indulging in some favorite fattening and unhealthy foods like Cheetos, Doritos and burgers with smoked gouda cheese! Hey, what are Super Bowls for, eh?

4. Hearing an uplifting and informative sermon on Sunday from our national pastor and his wife on the meaning of true love in marriage.

Pablo said...

Dear Broken,

It's always nice when you visit this inn. I hope you are doing well in school. Thank you for dropping by.

What need of yours was met by this post? Was it your need for celebrating life more deeply? Or was it that it met your need for awareness. Or was it the reminder that we want to maintain a sense of wonder and develop our sensitivity about spiritual matters?

I'm in agreement with you. It's easy to slip, while traveling the journey of life. This is where our Balcony People come in. They are the emotionally healthy and discerning individuals with whom we have braided relationships---where our lives are intertwined with them. When we are "a frayed" or afraid, they are there for us, holding us together.

I KNOW you will be of much help to others. You've already helped me, with your friendship.

I hope to see you again, soon, when you can. I know you are busy.

Pablo said...

Dear Carl,

Thank you, for sharing your highs and lows for the past week. I appreciate you remembering that we do that, here, in the inn.


Hurray for your greater flexibility!

I'm happy reading that you are indeed celebrating life: spending time with your wife, watching movies, enjoying sports. I'm impressed. You are living in "good time," staying present.

I'm wishing you a great week!

Quotes from the Posts

"I'm mindful that our thoughts affect the words we use, our words influence our actions, our actions shape our character and our character determines our destiny."

From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.

"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."

From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post
written. To read it, please click here.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.

"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."

From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.

"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"

From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.

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