Wednesday, January 29
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"I'm mindful that our thoughts affect the words we use, our words influence our actions, our actions shape our character and our character determines our destiny."
From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.
"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."
From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post written. To read it, please click here.
"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.
"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."
From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post written. To read it, please click here.
"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.
"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."
From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.
"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"
From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.
"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"
From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.
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4 comments:
Reasons why my day was awesome…
Several chaoses at work - battled through.
Finsihed all tasks for my pre-holiday list
Have a guy coming to fix my dishwasher. Yeah!!!
Dear Innkeeper,
On this Thursday night, I am grateful for...
1. The healing power of sleep after a long days journey into night.
2. The healing power of recovery literature to provide calm in the eye of the storm, and perspective when darkness falls.
3. The soothing and hope-inspiring poetry of new-found true love when, against all odds, it finds its way through the frigid snow-pack of life's lonely challenges, into the radiant warmth of an early Spring! Congratulations young lovers - everywhere!
4. When a mentor serendipitously models a genuine heart of love for his beloved, as a timely reminder of how once blissful, yet now weary souls might reignite the moon-lit campfire embers of their love, under the stars.
5. The (as always) warm, loving, safe and sacred space created by our weekly gathering of friends around the sharing of our experiences, strength and hope in healing.
6. That love, time and patience can and will heal all things; large and small.
7. That I am unexpectedly finding ways to carry the message of healing and recovery to a family member; long suffering domestically, without fully understanding why. Epiphany's abound...(like a Rock Slide Area warning sign) just around the corner!
Dear Vanessa,
Great seeing you here. Thank you, for sharing your gratitudes. Were you happy, seeing yourself exercise discipline and perseverance, getting everything done?
Dear Carl,
Are you worn out? Thanks for using this inn to cool your heels. Let me know the darkness you find yourself immersed in. If I can, I want to help.
Wow, Carl, you are waxing poetic. Key point about love: love can wait to give; lust can't wait to get.
I enjoy healthy times of fellowship, too. Where I go, everyone is genuine, authentic, and places principles above their personality.
I find that forgiveness is key, for overcoming difficulties with others. That being said, I ask what steps I need to take in order to meet my needs for fairness, reciprocity, celebrating life and enjoying the abundance God has for me.
When relating with loved ones who struggle, I'm mindful that one life showing the way is better than ten tongues trying to explain it.
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