With recovery, we do not accept unac-ceptable behavior. As we become more
comfortable with our wants, likes, dislikes, dreams, and choices, we become more willing to risk the disapproval of others. We stand against behavior that mini-mizes or demeans.
It is important being mindful that much of the abuse we experience is self-inflicted. Frequent-ly, we mistreat our-selves more than anyone else does. We push ourselves with-out rest. We are quick to self-judge, condemning our-selves.That's where the first poster comes in handy. "Condemning my imperfections has never enhanced my appreciation of life or helped me to love myself more."
Since we once tolerated their abuse, they expect us to abide by it. Our silence meant tacit agreement, so they think.
If we are living with recov-ery, our retort is, "I want you to respect my feelings and need for tranquility. If you cannot, it's better we don't relate."
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Wishing you a terrific week. I know mine will be. It already has been.
Yesterday, I spent time with family. There was plenty of sunshine as we strolled the annual Niles Flea Market. This is the town I grew up in, as a kid.There's something to be said for being present. I soaked in the moments shared with my son. I lis-tened to understand, not to reply. What a joy it is, finding our relationship getting stronger, as the years go by.
Our times when we meet on Sunday are our Sunday family dinners. I am glad he likes our get-togethers, too. I don't have to say anything when we gather. I let my at-tentive eyes do all the speak-ing. Sometimes the most important thing in a conversa-tion is what is not said.My son is extremely busy. He carves out the time so we can meet. Yet, yesterday he strayed beyond the time he alloted.
Not a better compliment have I enjoyed this year. And for that, I have an Attitude of Gratitude.
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