Thursday, November 8

Common Sense, Communication 11/8/18

      This is the seventeenth in a series featuring posters used here previously.

       Having a format makes it easier submitting something here.  Work consumes my time, not allowing me to tend to my duties here as much as I want. Today's subjects are common sense and communication.

       We are not given information to increase our understanding. Know-ledge is to be used to improve
our lives.
      Many of my clients know plenty about what to do to improve their lives and experience healing from past trage-dies.  Applying what they've learned is another matter. 
       Common sense is wisdom, applied knowledge. 

       Often, we know what to do.
"One life showing the way is better than ten tongues trying to explain it." 
       Communicating is a thorny matter.  What is said is not necessarily what is understood.

     An indigent man approached a weal-thy matron in the affluent suburb of Hillsborough, California, seventeen miles south of San Francisco.  "Can you spare some money?" he asked.

      The woman was kind but practical.  The woman pointed to her house.  She said, " In the back of my house I have a porch needing a paint job. If you paint it with the flat green paint I have, I'll give you a hundred dollars."

       "Ma'am, I would be happy to do that," the man with threadbare, dirty clothes replied.

       Four hours later, he approached her.  Painted splattered on his clothes.  Sweat poured from his forehead because of his earnest effort.

      His shirt was soaked, due to his exertions.  He ful-filled his part of the bargain.

       "Lady, I painted every inch with the green paint, includ-ing the hubcaps," he said,  "But, it wasn't a Porsche, it was a Mercedes!"

      What is expres-sed is not necessarily what is heard.

       This is where having another reflect back to us what he or she heard helps.  Had she done so, the woman is this story would have spared herself the grief of driving a car painted with house paint.
     
     Wishing each of you a terrific, great and grateful day. 

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Quotes from the Posts

"I'm mindful that our thoughts affect the words we use, our words influence our actions, our actions shape our character and our character determines our destiny."

From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.

"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."

From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post
written. To read it, please click here.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.

"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."

From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.

"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"

From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.

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