Monday, December 24

A Christmas Story of the Feathery Kind 12/24/12

    I'm bumping this up.  I wrote this last year, posting it exactly a year ago, today.  I see from the sidebar on the right that many have been reading it.  It is the most popular post for this week and the third most popular for the month.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I did in writing this re-telling of it.

    May your Christmas be Merry and Bright.  And, Jesus is the reason for this season.   The Innkeeper. 

Here's the post: 


      Please gather round the fireplace that warms this inn.  You’ve been frazzled by the siren call of Madison Avenue, QVC, the Home Shopping Network, Radio Shack and Macy commercials.  You’ve been overwhelmed

Sunday, December 23

The Source for Equanimity ........12/23/12

     My Gratitudes for Sunday:

1.  I watched my football team get beaten, badly.  I was happy to have a change of pace. Watching the team play allowed me to get acquainted with the players.  I like the

Letting Go, Revisited .............. 12/23/12

     Good evening everyone,

I'm bumping up this post. I submitted it a little over a year ago.  it's number ten on the all-time most favorite post in this inn.

    It's a good reminder of what's necessary if we want to have serenity.  Letting go is critical is a big lesson to learn.  We need to learn to retire the cape.


                                                                                                                  
T
o let go doesn’t mean to stop caring:
     it means I can’t do it for someone else.
   To let go is not to cut myself off:
     it is the realization that I can’t control another.

Saturday, December 22

Luxuriating in My Gratitudes---A Happy Innkeeper

     Good late evening everyone,

Please warm yourself by the fire, it's cold outside.  It's been a long while since I've left gratitudes as listed below.  In my previous post, they

Being Fit to Live .........12/22/12

      Good morning,

I went to bed early----actually, I crashed and burned on my bed, upon arrival at home, last night.  No dinner.  I simply went to bed.  The week was fulfilling but

Thursday, December 20

Having A Merry Christmas Season

    My, it's been a long time since I've posted gratitudes.

It feels good, knowing I will, in a minute----my gratitude muscles can't wait.  My work has increased the past month, keeping the innkeeper away from this

Wednesday, December 19

The Innkeeper's Third Favorite Christmas Story ........12/19/12

    How is everyone doing during this Christmas Season?

It's easy allowing the frenzy of Christmas shopping to distract us from the true meaning of this season: celebra-ting the birth of Christ.  I'm bumping up the following post, written last year in December.

          May the rest of this Christmas season provide you with the serenity and tranquility you seek. These qualities are ours when we abide in His presence, despite the stress involved while Christmas shopping and the frenzy it can produce.

           This is my re-telling of events, based on research and an account given by Fritz Vincken, the young twelve year old son mentioned in the story.  For more about his biography, read here.  Here's the post:

            In December 1944, the Battle of the Bulge was fought in sub-freezing weather.  The American and British troops were defeating a German force twice their number. This engagement lasted from December 16th until January 25th, 1945.  A cook for the Nazi Army left his wife and young son in a shack in the Ardennes Forest near the German-Belgium border, seemingly distant from danger.

           The poor weather---snow, bitter cold and impenetrable fog----grounded Allied aircraft and greatly aided the German advance.  That Christmas Eve, soldiers on both sides became lost.  Many looked for a place to bed down until morning, when they would resume their search for their unit. 

           The following story happened sixty-seven years ago........

          Three American soldiers stumbled upon an occupied shack.  Light emanated from the cottage, smoke pouring from the chimney.  It offered a chance to warm their frost-bit, combat-weary bodies. Upon its door, they knocked. 

          A mother, Elisabeth and her young son, Fritz, responded.  Using sign language, the soldiers asked to enter.  The woman was preparing a meal, using a scrawny chicken.  She beckoned the men in, offering her simple Christmas meal.

         One soldier was wounded, shot during a fire-fight earlier that day. The woman, using rags, stopped his bleeding.  He laid upon the living room couch. The language barrier was broken when the men learned Elisabeth spoke French, a language that one of the G.I.s from Louisiana knew. 

         The Americans unloaded their forty-five to sixty pound packs.  This evening provided a rare chance to stretch-out.  Spending the night in something bigger and warmer than a foxhole was a welcomed treat, especially in this weather.  The heat from the hearth, was an appreciated and unexpected early Christmas gift.  Little did these men know that soon, the room would experience warmth of another kind.

        More than an hour passed when a crisp rap upon the weather-worn door startled the little family and American visitors. The men grabbed their weapons while the woman answered the door.  Four German soldiers were lost.  "Was shelter available?" they asked the lady.  "Yes, come in for Christmas dinner, but I have other guests," she answered. 

        One German soldier remarked, "Americana?" She said, "Yes. This is Christmas. There'll be no killing tonight, not in my home."  She ordered the Germans to leave their weapons outside, before entering.  Those from the United States were instructed to do the same.

       The combatants stood together, men who earlier that day, sought to kill one another. The little boy, Fritz, heard his heart banging loudly.  He pulled on his winter jacket.  He didn't want everyone else hearing the emotional percussion, too. 

        For what seemed eternity---ten minutes---the room strained under the uncomfortable silence.  The men warily eyed each other.  Eventually, American cigarettes were offered to the Europeans.  The Germans welcomed them, provisions were scarce.  A German soldier with medical training inspected the wounded American.  Finding usable items within the home, he tended to the injured G.I. 

        Preparations for the Christmas dinner were completed.  The food was meager-----what was meant for the woman and her son was stretched to serve seven last-minute guests.  A bag of stored potatoes provided a hearty soup.  Before eating, the woman of the cabin spoke. 

        This woman said war was wrong. Elisabeth recounted the Christmas Story, speaking of the hope it offered.  The host spoke in German to the European visitors and in French to the Americans.

        The soldiers, including the tough German sergeant, were moved.  The eyes of few of these battle-hardened men swam, as they recalled of stories told to them during Christmas, when they were little, in their childhood homes.  

        While gnawing at the stringy chicken, the uneasiness the men had towards each other transformed into warmth. 

        After the meal, the Nazi soldiers sang Silent Night, a song of German origin.  Afterwards, two of them sang  the verses in English, along with the Americans.

        Fed and satisfied with their first home-cooked meal in months, the men slept in the cramped quarters of the tiny alpine cottage.  In the morning, a stretcher for the wounded American was crafted by the Germans. A compass and directions  were given to the Americans. The German soldiers took the lady and her son back to their lines, reuniting them with her husband.

        For one night, during a horrific battle, God's peace dwelt within nine who spent the night in the tiny cabin.  Even in the worst possible circumstances, war, God dwelt among them. 

        Two thousand years ago, a young pregnant woman and her husband were not admitted to a crowded inn, in Bethlehem. There was no room for the Christ child.  Today, this slight can be corrected. He can be welcomed into the inn of our hearts. Invite Him, if you haven't. You'll discover the greatest Christmas gift ever----eternal life.

        The Peace in Bethlehem came to nine persons in a middle of the Battle of the Bulge in war-torn Europe. Experiencing God's love and peace is just as available today, to hearts torn with despair or pain.

         I ask God to show me, how I can demonstrate character like the mother in this story.  Being an instrument of His peace is my desire.  The world desperately needs to know hope, freedom from fear, gratitude and peace.

         May you have a Merry Christmas, 
               

Tuesday, December 18

Assistant Innkeeper's Personal Growth: Applying Awareness, Acceptance and Action ............................12/18/12


        Hello everyone,

How are you?  Our new assistant innkeeper, Carl, shares with us lessons learned as he applied the Three A's at a recent company party.  He reminds us of the need to respond and not react, that we have choices. We do not have to be victims to life's circumstances.

       Thanks, Carl, for your insights.  May every guest today have a great and grateful day as we grow in grace towards ourselves and others.   Here's the post:

For more about  the
Rosetta Stone, read here. 
Rosetta Stone: "A clue, breakthrough, or discovery that provides crucial knowledge for solving or understanding a puzzle or problem."   
      A wise, battle scarred, present-day sage in the field of human behavior once shared that page 256 in a relatively obscure daily reader, Courage to Change, is the

Monday, December 17

Weathering External and Internal Storms

  Good morning everyone,

How was your weekend? Mine was pretty good. I've been wrestling with stress, storms, on several different fronts. It was good getting rest the last two days. It was the first

Friday, December 14

Breaking With An Innish Tradition, Rightfully So .....12/14/12



"The great men and women of history are remembered not because they never failed, but because they didn't let their failures stop them." 
      
   
        Hello everyone,

I'm breaking with an innish tradition.  For only the second time----in five-hundred and sixty-four posts----am I not saying "good

Quotes from the Posts

"I'm mindful that our thoughts affect the words we use, our words influence our actions, our actions shape our character and our character determines our destiny."

From "My Character Determines My Destiny." To read it, please click here.

"Progress not perfection, is better than no progress at all, especially when we're trying to rid ourselves from unwelcome dragons that dwell within the closets of our soul."

From, "Still Learning" which, within four days, became the most popular post
written. To read it, please click here.

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, but it does empty today of its strength"
From the post: "Life Is Not a Correspondence Program." Click here to read it.

"Even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can control how we choose to respond to them."

From, "Handling Stress and Dealing With an Emotional Bully."Click here to read this post.

"Nope, being busy isn't exciting. Boring is good. Because boring is not boring; boring is being healthy, living a balanced life that has serenity"

From: "Do You Know What It Means If You Are Too Busy?" For more, please click here.

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