No, I am not dead.
I recently got my laptop back from the repair shop. How are you? Are you glad to see me? I am speaking somewhere tonight, so I have to leave the inn.
But, not before I leave a post with you.
It deals with externally referenting (another view of codependency), low self-esteem, the need for character discernment and defensive hope.
I recently got my laptop back from the repair shop. How are you? Are you glad to see me? I am speaking somewhere tonight, so I have to leave the inn.
But, not before I leave a post with you.
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He's in a bog. Care needed when enmeshed
in a bog of circumstances that don't serve us. This fellow is a codependent. That's why he's happy. He's accustomed to being stuck in a mess. Life offers more: peace of mind. |
Below, is a letter written to someone enmeshed in a destructive, emotionally abusive, addictive relationship. I'm sharing it with guests to this inn.
It deals with externally referenting (another view of codependency), low self-esteem, the need for character discernment and defensive hope.
Dear _________,
A big part of our disease is that, without working on healthy alternatives in the areas where we are vulnerable, using the resources of a mentor, or connecting with emotionally mature others, we allow those who disturb us to own big chunks of our mind and heart. We give away our serenity.