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Saturday, February 21
A Fabulous Day 2/21/15
Delightful weather, delightful conversation, delightful cycling. Can't beat that. Not true. All of these were trumped by spending all of these aspects of today with a son, creating memories I won't forget.
I attended a
I attended a
Thursday, February 19
The Benefits of Loss................. 2/19/15
More about this, later in this post. |
Gratitudes for Today:
1. A client brought her mother with her, to today's session. The focus was entirely upon the new guest. I now have a new client. The mom was visiting from Reno. We'll use Skype.
2. An interesting point was brought up today, while with a client. He believed nothing is impossible with
Tuesday, February 17
Being Gentle But Effective When Expressing Ourselves, Revisited....... ...................2/17/15
Innkeeper's Note: I see that a few have rummaged through the attic of this inn and have laid hold on this the following post, a favorite of mine. It is running up the sidebar for the most popular posts for this week. Thank you for dropping by and checking out the inn's library.
I am re-posting it for
I am re-posting it for
Saturday, February 14
Taking Care of Needs, Dealing With Disappointment 2/14/15
This is the time when reviewing the high and low points for the last seven days happens. It's a barometer, allowing me to know if I am on track with my vision for my life.
High Points
High Points
1. I am resting more, achieving balance during my week. My days are intense by nature. I need down time to decompress. When I slow down, I am more effective, my mind is clearer.
2. Using priorities, setting a scheduled time for
Thursday, February 12
Vying for Status: No Interest in Being the Head Dung Beetle .......... 2/12/15
Two dung beetles doing their thing. I'm the one on the right, behind the other. |
When I worked in a psychiatric hospital, I worked the day shift on Saturdays. Often, at the end of the day, the Assistant Director of Nursing asked if I would work a double shift, for her department. It was Saturday, as I said. Invariably, an employee would call in sick. You could count on it. For the psychiatric rehab department, I
Tuesday, February 10
Sunday, February 8
Friday, February 6
A Phrase That Helps Us Get Real With Others....... 2/6/15
It is easy, our mind shooting off in different directions, being captive to our thoughts, out of touch with the emotions coursing through us. Applying the sentence above helps us remain
present, in touch with our feelings, spirit and soul. We take ownership for our judg-ments, expressing them. Uttering this phrase, we admit our projections, "...I imagine." We aren't declaring the other individual is a certain way, we
Wednesday, February 4
True Poverty and Wealth.............. 2/4/15
I wrote the following today.
As a comment on another blog. The subject was how we should look at the poor. I thought I'd share it with you:
1. I paced my day today. That's taking care of me.
2. I was diligent about work that was important, but not urgent, that can easily be ignored, but becomes urgent within a few weeks of neglect. I love the feeling of effectiveness I have, because of what I have done.
3. My life is more ordered because of administrative work I have been focusing on since Sunday.
4. Met with friends tonight. It was terrific, the honesty, openness and vulnerability we shared with each other.
5. I slept in today. Ya ay. Rest is critical, if I am to thrive.
As a comment on another blog. The subject was how we should look at the poor. I thought I'd share it with you:
"We may need to change our per-spective. Often success is evaluated from an external perspective---the acquiring of things and how expensive these items are. Whether it be it a house, clothing or jewelry.
"Abundance is not in how much we have, but in how much we enjoy."
"I have seen those who may be con-sidered as poor who were incred-ibly wealthy. They may not have had money to buy a gift for a loved one, but they used a pencil to write them a poem, draw them a picture or picked up a guitar and composed a song for the person cherished.
"So, who are truly the poor? I know many considered wealthy people who are utterly poor. They are poor in character. Or they are judgmental. They are unloving and insensitive.
"Or perhaps destitute of character, who cannot connect with others. Or they are bitter or arrogant. And what makes a person rich? It was not a matter how they have materially. Their abundance is that they bless others with kindness, sensitivty and love.
Gratitudes:"This is my roundabout answer to the question about poverty. I don't assess a person by the car, job or money he has or doesn't have. Most everyone can offer wealth. We just need to see beyond their title, looks, ethnicity, name or what part of town they come from."
1. I paced my day today. That's taking care of me.
2. I was diligent about work that was important, but not urgent, that can easily be ignored, but becomes urgent within a few weeks of neglect. I love the feeling of effectiveness I have, because of what I have done.
3. My life is more ordered because of administrative work I have been focusing on since Sunday.
4. Met with friends tonight. It was terrific, the honesty, openness and vulnerability we shared with each other.
5. I slept in today. Ya ay. Rest is critical, if I am to thrive.
Sunday, February 1
"Don't Should On Me." Standing Up to Abuse, Finding Freedom ............ 2/1/15
Copyrighted Image: "England: Northamptonshire:Summer Day" by Tim Blessed. |