tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post8160233379663235874..comments2023-05-15T19:42:05.251-07:00Comments on The Attitude of Gratitude Inn: Imaginings Are Not Reality............... 2/4/16Pablohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17963540433054608632noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-83005984316596402842016-02-16T23:56:25.859-08:002016-02-16T23:56:25.859-08:00Dear CK,
I look forward to your visits! How is i...Dear CK, <br /><br />I look forward to your visits! How is it for you, receiving grace from co-workers? That's a rare gift. I smile when thinking about the sensitivity your colleagues demonstrated. Did you feel encouraged, edified? <br /><br /> I was happy reading you support of Jane. I love seeing teamwork and value your sensitivity towards her. <br /><br /> I appreciate your comments, <br /><br /> The InnkeeperPablohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17963540433054608632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-18757258713209406222016-02-16T23:49:35.316-08:002016-02-16T23:49:35.316-08:00Dear Jane,
Thank you for your comment. I appreci...Dear Jane, <br /><br />Thank you for your comment. I appreciate your honesty. <br /><br />What do you think can help you overcome your fears? I am glad you decided to fulfill your commitment. Do you feel more relaxed because you took care of this action? <br /><br /> Any ideas on how you can overcome your guilt feelings and just do what you said you would do? <br /><br /> I am curious to hear your reply.Pablohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17963540433054608632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-37531192576987862652016-02-16T23:40:11.654-08:002016-02-16T23:40:11.654-08:00Syd,
Thank you for your support. Part of my r...Syd, <br /><br /> Thank you for your support. Part of my recovery is not accepting unacceptable behavior. In the story above I let this person know I could not help them any longer. This was almost a year ago. <br /><br /> Then I heard from him again, a few weeks back. He wanted a favor. I could not help. I let him know within forty-nine minutes of reading his e-mail. <br /><br /> I was happy I responded quickly. I took care of me. That was something, because I was triggered. It was definitely a time of placing principles above the vulnerable parts of my personality.<br /><br /> Thank you for dropping by. I always enjoy your visits.Pablohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17963540433054608632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-74856713130255729092016-02-10T05:20:18.942-08:002016-02-10T05:20:18.942-08:00Dear Innkeeper,
I couldn't agree with you...Dear Innkeeper,<br /> I couldn't agree with you more in terms of imagination not being reality. I was dealing with something at work that I ended up catastrophizing. Fortunately, two co-workers reassured me that I was doing fine. Grace entered my life. By the way, Jane, I'm sorry for your struggle. However, I think you have a strong writer's voice. Good to hear from you on this post. Cheers!<br />-CKAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-39654899809463550652016-02-08T17:07:53.610-08:002016-02-08T17:07:53.610-08:00I have been in a situation where I promised someon...I have been in a situation where I promised someone I would do something for them. However due to fear, I chose to put this task off. I agreed to get this done within a week. <br /><br /> Firstly, I'm not too bothered. I have a whole week. One day turns into two, then three. The next thing I know the week is up. I haven't got it done.<br /><br /> Now I start to feel guilty. I've been doing this for years and years. I have become accustomed to pushing down my guilty feelings. This is what I do.<br /><br /> I need to be like you. I need to face my fears and just write. So I did. <br /><br /> Jane G. YorkshireAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5944766913433542786.post-67136620929216811242016-02-08T08:47:53.814-08:002016-02-08T08:47:53.814-08:00Pablo, I get it about the person you wrote about a...Pablo, I get it about the person you wrote about and the fear and anxiety you felt. I have a friend who is a recovering alcoholic. He is an angry fearful person. Perhaps his behavior is due to being a dry drunk and having ADHD. He is difficult to be around because of his anger. Nonetheless, I remain a friend by taking what I like and leaving the rest. Difficult but knowing that I can walk away helps. Good that you wrote to him. And good that you received a measured response. Hope all else is well. Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.com